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How to Cultivate a Sexual Relationship With Mature Women in the Modern Era

It is most young men’s biggest fantasy to bed an older woman, especially a very attractive one.  If it is yours too, then you will be pleased to know that it is possible. Most people view the idea of starting a sexual relationship with an older woman as something that’s impossible or unachievable, but this is not true. In many ways, it is easier to bed an older woman than one your own age. Older women do have higher expectations, but they are also more agreeable, and less judgmental.

This post will tell you how you can start a sexual relationship with a mature woman in today’s modern age.


Getting Experience

You won’t be able to seduce an older woman if you aren’t experienced. While it is definitely true that older women are less judgmental, that only extends to things like one’s appearance or the way that a person dresses. When it comes to sex, manners, and conversational skills, older women have high expectations. Getting experience can be very daunting, especially if you aren’t the most confident person. Thankfully though, you can use sex lines to speak to mature women over the phone, hire escorts, and even pay a dating coach to help you. Here’s more detail about these things:

Using Sex Lines

Sex lines are without a doubt one of this list’s most effective solutions for learning to talk to older women. You can phone a dedicated MILF sex line, and then ask the women to whom you are connected for advice on picking up older women. You can also use sex lines as a way to brush up on your dirty talk. Older women love dirty talk. If you are not confident having it though, then it can make you look inexperienced and childish. Using sex lines is a great way to improve your skills and become more confident at it.

Hiring Escorts

You don’t just need to know how to talk to older women, you also need to know how to satisfy them sexually. Younger women tend to be more accepting of men who don’t perform well in bed because young men very rarely perform well. Older women expect men to be able to satisfy them, however. If you prematurely ejaculate when having sex with an older woman, she’s liable to never call you back again, whereas a young woman might give you another chance. Escorts are a great way to learn how to improve sexually. You can hire mature escorts, too, which will no doubt satisfy your own urges.

Consider Coaching

If you want a relationship with an older woman and don’t just want sex, then consider hiring a dating coach. A dating coach will be able to work with you to improve your dating skills so that you can impress older women. A dating coach may even be able to recommend places for you to go to pick up older women, like bars, clubs, speed dating venues, and perhaps even websites.

Dating Websites

Dating websites are one of the best places to go if you are looking for older women. It’s possible to find dating sites that cater entirely to older women, looking for younger men. You often have to pay to sign up for such websites, though. You can use standard dating sites, too. Most dating sites give you the option to customize searches according to a person’s age. In other words, you can adjust your search filters so that only women over a certain age show up.

Hook-up Sites

Hook-up sites are like dating sites, except the people that use them only want sex, and nothing else. Using such sites can be an effective way of finding older women interested in sex. You can adjust your search filters on these sites, too. If you are planning on using a hook-up site then you need to make sure that you take steps to protect your privacy. Since you will only be meeting the people on these sites for sex, you need to make sure that you don’t reveal too much information about yourself. Always meet people from hook-up sites in a public place before taking them back to bed, too.

Social Media

Social media can be an effective place to meet older women, too. One of the best things about social media is that you can quickly tell whether or not a woman’s married or in a relationship by checking out her account status. If a woman is not in a relationship or married, then it will show up there. If they are, then similarly, it will show up in this section. You should always check a woman’s marriage or relationship status before messaging her on social media so that you don’t offend her, or her partner.


If there is a specific older woman that you are interested in, then you could ask a friend or even a family member to introduce you to them. When you are asking for introductions you need to be confident that the woman is interested in you or would be. Asking a loved one or friend to introduce you to an older woman that they know could turn out to be very embarrassing if they think you are too young. If they are a family friend, it could fracture their relationship with your family. Only ask for introductions if you are confident that they would be interested in you.


When you are trying to pull older women, you need to be confident. If you appear insecure, nervous, or inexperienced, an older woman might not want to start a relationship with you. They could, if you appear this way, be reminded of your age, and find the idea of doing anything with you uncomfortable. The more confident you are, the less likely they are to turn you away because you are younger than them. Confidence is, without a doubt, the most important quality to possess if you want to seduce older women.

Having sex with older women isn’t impossible, despite what a lot of men seem to think. As long as you follow this post’s guidance, then you will be able to have sex with them. Make sure to get a little bit of experience before attempting to seduce an older woman, for reasons already mentioned.