What to do when your spouse lets you down?

But after he lets you down time after time after time, you will begin to lose hope in him, and thus lose hope in your marriage. At all times, you must stay positive. Replace every negative thought with a positive one and use uplifting words, not deconstructive ones.

How to save my marriage when my spouse wants a fight?

Take your focus off what your spouse is doing and put your focus solely on God and what all you need to accomplish in your personal life while you wait expectantly to see how God is going to resolve the situation. Weighing the Balances: Is S/he Worth the Fight?

What should I say to my husband when he hurts me?

Try this: everything you want to say to your spouse, say it to God (or a Higher Being). When he hurts you, cutting you deep to your soul, tell God and only God. Here’s an example: God, did you hear what he just said to me? I am his wife! How dare he talk to me like that? Did you see how wrong he just did his kids?

What are some good quotes from the book Remember Me?

All lights go out. So do all fires, if it’s any comfort. Love me, and look at me, and remember me, as I’ll remember you.” “If all I’m remembered for is being a good basketball player, then I’ve done a bad job with the rest of my life.” “Nothing has changed, Claire.

How to know if there is hope for your marriage?

There are two kinds of evidence to consider when determining if there is hope for your marriage –what your spouse is doing, and what you are doing. If your spouse: 1) is not committed to someone else, 2) has regular contact with you, and 3) you are willing to use effective methods, then there is hope for your marriage.

What to do when your spouse forgets something?

Just take charge, plan something fun, remind your dear one that you have made some great plans, and decide that this method works. Remember men are different, they have this ability to compartmentalize and work very focused on one task. (So the psychologists say.) Women are better at juggling many thoughts at one time, to our detriment sometimes.

Is there hope for Your Marriage, Jack Ito?

There are only a few that matter in terms of hope for your marriage. There is a difference between your spouse being interested in dating, and your spouse being committed to someone else. Everyone who is in a bad marriage has an interest in finding someone who will give them what they are not getting from the marriage. That interest is normal.

What to do when your spouse is not there?

In a relationship it’s nice if one of you remembers special occasions, but if that someone happens to be you, don’t be sad when your spouse is not the one. Just take charge, plan something fun, remind your dear one that you have made some great plans, and decide that this method works.