Should a man consult his wife before giving his mother money?

It depends on the amount of money. If it’s a trivial amount out of a personal account then no, probably not. If it’s an amount that will affect the financial situation of you and your wife, or if it’s out of a shared account then yes, you should discuss it with her first.

Why does my husband put his mother before me?

A man puts his family before his wife either when he has an unhealthy or co-dependent relationship with his parents, or he feels a lack of trust or connection with his wife. A husband’s strong relationship with his parents can nourish and positively impact a marriage to see its longevity.

Why does my husband not give me money?

He’s your husband, and he has two children, yet, he gets an attitude because you ask him to contribute to his household where he utilizes the water, lights, gas, and food. The same place he wants to call home, but he won’t give you money to pay the mortgage/rent, or help with the bills.

Why does my wife not want to contribute to bills?

It’s an important conversation, as you now know. Your wife sounds like she was raised to believe that a woman can have a career, but a wife will be financially supported by her husband. You might not be able to renegotiate this. Like many of the people who answered the question, I prefer to have the money in a marri… Loading…

What should I do if my husband throws money at me?

The next time he throws money at you take it and pay the bill, then throw his a** out! He’s your husband, and he has two children, yet, he gets an attitude because you ask him to contribute to his household where he utilizes the water, lights, gas, and food.

What was the agreement with my husband when we got married?

The agreement that I actually struck with him when we married was that I would pay 85% of our monthly common bills (mortgage, etc.) and he would pay 15% to allow him to continue to pay down his credit cards.   This was supposed to go on for 2 years when his contribution would go up to 1/3 of our household bills.

He’s your husband, and he has two children, yet, he gets an attitude because you ask him to contribute to his household where he utilizes the water, lights, gas, and food. The same place he wants to call home, but he won’t give you money to pay the mortgage/rent, or help with the bills.

The next time he throws money at you take it and pay the bill, then throw his a** out! He’s your husband, and he has two children, yet, he gets an attitude because you ask him to contribute to his household where he utilizes the water, lights, gas, and food.

  The agreement that I actually struck with him when we married was that I would pay 85% of our monthly common bills (mortgage, etc.) and he would pay 15% to allow him to continue to pay down his credit cards.   This was supposed to go on for 2 years when his contribution would go up to 1/3 of our household bills.

How does your husband know how much money you spend?

Nicole: “My husband knows how much money I spend. From a certain amount, I always ask him, if he’s OK with it. I won’t call it ‘financial bullying’, I call it ‘living together’. Someone has to keep an eye on the family’s money.”