Users' questions

How to deal with disrespectful children in the classroom?

How to deal with disrespectful children in the classroom?

Create private, cozy areas in your classroom where kids can sit and relax if they’re being disruptive. Provide pillows, books, stuffed toys, and other calming items. The idea is that the child is not being punished, but learning that he needs to regulate emotions better if he wants to participate in class.

Why is my adult child so disrespectful to me?

The adult child may have things going on with them that they don’t necessarily want to share with their parent. Their anger or disrespect may have roots in problems that you are not able to meaningfully address, such as mental illness or trauma.

Is it okay to ignore minor disrespect from your child?

It may seem like ignoring minor disrespect is the same as allowing your child to get away with it. But selective ignoring can be one of the most effective negative consequences. Ignoring doesn’t mean letting your child get away with being mean, however.

Why did my 20 year old son leave school?

He does not tell us why he left school and his fraternity, only that he does not have friends there. He says he is ashamed of his father’s job, which is manager of a fast food store. He calls us names and says f___ you and all women are b____ and so on.

What should I do if my child is making disrespectful comments?

If your child hears you using put-downs, making snide comments, using sarcasm, swearing or shouting or sees you rolling your eyes or making faces at people, you are not modelling a respectful attitude. Be polite, courteous, considerate and well-mannered, and you will soon see such an attitude from your child.

When did I know my son had anger issues?

My son has always had problems with self control and anger management. As his mom I suspected he was ADHD from a very young age-2 years. I would bring up my concerns to his pediatrician, but it was dismissed as being an active toddler, then preschooler, then just being a boy.

The adult child may have things going on with them that they don’t necessarily want to share with their parent. Their anger or disrespect may have roots in problems that you are not able to meaningfully address, such as mental illness or trauma.

Why is my son not doing well at school?

It has worked out to some extent, but we think that he is aggressive at school and does not have proper social emotional skills needed to interact with his peers. He does not get along with any of his classmates. Teachers say his behavior in the classroom is not appropriate.