How do you deal with a clingy roommate?
How do you deal with a clingy roommate?
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What I Do About My Clingy Roommate?
- Be sensitive, be kind, and be honest. The key here is to not say what is exactly on your mind; don’t tell your roommate that she’s creepy and that you think she has dependency issues.
- Avoid blaming her and criticizing her for anything.
- Be calm, respectful, and level-headed.
What do roommates usually share?
Here are seven things you can share with your roommate in order to save money.
- Kitchen Appliances.
- Dishes and Cups.
- Throw Rugs/Carpet.
- Textbooks.
- TV/Entertainment.
- Electrical Gadgets.
- Utility Bills.
Should you share a mini fridge with your roommate?
If one of you is dirty and the other is clean then sharing a fridge may cause problem. If you both share with one another (you are out of something and its okay to take theirs and you will replace what you took, then it is okay).
In addition to having to share space when you live with roommates, you also have to share the payment of bills as well as some household items such as kitchen appliances, electronic gadgets, utensils, rugs and carpets, and some basic decorations among other things.
Are there things you can’t share with a roommate?
Some items must be shared. Items like kitchen appliances, blankets, and communal towels are gonna grow legs at times. But when roomies start assuming items like personal clothing or luxury bath items (like anything nicer than hand soap, I have low standards) are cool to use with your consent, that’s bad news.
How to get personal belongings back from a roommate?
A lawyer can also write a formal letter to your roommate requesting that she return all the items by a certain date, noting that if she doesn’t, you are going to take legal action. Sometimes, a strongly worded legal letter can be enough to persuade someone to cooperate because she won’t want to go to court. Take it to court.
What to do if your roommate withholds something?
You might need to provide substantial proof that you purchased the items that your roommate is withholding. Gather any receipts you have, as well as credit card statements and past bank statements that might serve as proof that you paid for an item. If you have pictures of yourself with the items, these can help as well. Speak to your roommate.
What’s the worst thing a roommate can do?
But when roomies start assuming items like personal clothing or luxury bath items (like anything nicer than hand soap, I have low standards) are cool to use with your consent, that’s bad news. A serious violation of trust and respect, TBH.
What to do with your former roommates belongings?
When cohabitation goes sour, your roommate may vacate your shared residence unexpectedly. If your former roommate leaves belongings behind after abruptly moving out, you may wonder what to do with them. Are you required to keep them?
How long do you have to hold on to your roommates property?
Your liability for your roommate’s property will vary depending on the state you live. Each state has different laws regarding what is considered property abandonment in a rental situation, and how long you are required to hold onto the property (though it’s usually about 15-20 days).
What’s the Golden Rule for living with roommates?
You will be well served by following the Golden Rule. If you don’t like walking into your living room to unexpectedly find a stranger sacked out on the couch, don’t invite friends over without giving your roommate a heads-up; don’t touch your roommate’s stuff without asking permission first; don’t leave your dirty dishes in the common area.
What should I do to get along with my roommate?
The best thing you can do to get along with your roommate is to sit down with him the first day you move in (if you’re in the dorms) or before you sign a lease (if you’re getting an apartment) to discuss the rules of the apartment/dorm. Don’t make this conversation combative. Don’t be defensive and uptight.